Kind of figuring this post visibility thing out. Almost like file permissions. So this SHOULD be visible to the instance, but NOT the entire fediverse. So like rw- r-- --- or 640 (if you know what that means, maybe you should get out more ;-))
Have I got that right?
@meg This post seems to have been marked as "do not post to timelines" so it only shows to followers and those reading your profile
@meg i am seeing this