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ABY BUT IN ALLCAPS<p>It's interesting how it's always the men with the "LordMasterDivineDomlyGod" names who make declarations of how sadism/masochism works for everyone*, and when you question what they've said they decide you're the one being stubborn and ignorant?</p><p>Like, my guy.. my little guy, it's ok that other people experience things in different ways to you. It's really ok.</p><p><a href="https://aus.social/tags/kink" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>kink</span></a> <a href="https://aus.social/tags/bdsm" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>bdsm</span></a> <a href="https://aus.social/tags/Ds" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>Ds</span></a> <a href="https://aus.social/tags/Dominant" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>Dominant</span></a> <a href="https://aus.social/tags/submissive" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>submissive</span></a> <a href="https://aus.social/tags/fetlife" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>fetlife</span></a> </p><p>_____<br>* brought to you by the ever pervasive bullshit idea that sadists are naturally dominant and masochists are naturally submissive, because sadism is active and dynamic, but masochism is passive and receptive.</p>
Naga<p>So it's the 30th, the original lapse date of the 4-week masturbation ban--though see upthread for it being partially superseded.</p><p>The new word to come down is that I may ask for permission to masturbate as often as I want--in contrast to the previous rule of once per week.</p><p>But I still am not under any circumstances to orgasm, until further notice.</p><p>(Also see upthread -- not allowing me to orgasm poses no particular adversity for her, as we are physically unable to have penetrative sex.)</p><p>Winning?</p><p>And for those counting, 42 days since I last came.</p><p><a href="https://weirder.earth/tags/BeCarefulWhatYouWishFor" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>BeCarefulWhatYouWishFor</span></a> <a href="https://weirder.earth/tags/MaleChastity" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>MaleChastity</span></a> <a href="https://weirder.earth/tags/OrgasmControl" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>OrgasmControl</span></a> <a href="https://weirder.earth/tags/OrgasmDenial" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>OrgasmDenial</span></a> <a href="https://weirder.earth/tags/FemDom" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>FemDom</span></a> <a href="https://weirder.earth/tags/FLR" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>FLR</span></a> <a href="https://weirder.earth/tags/kink" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>kink</span></a> <a href="https://weirder.earth/tags/BDSM" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>BDSM</span></a></p>
Manuel 'HonkHase' Atug<p><a href="https://chaos.social/tags/Kink" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>Kink</span></a> and <a href="https://chaos.social/tags/LGBT" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>LGBT</span></a> dating apps <a href="https://chaos.social/tags/exposed" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>exposed</span></a> 1.5m private user images online</p><p>"Researchers have discovered nearly 1.5 million pictures from specialist dating apps – many of which are explicit – being stored online without password protection, leaving them <a href="https://chaos.social/tags/vulnerable" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>vulnerable</span></a> to hackers and <a href="https://chaos.social/tags/extortionists" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>extortionists</span></a>.</p><p>Anyone with the link was able to view the private photos from five platforms developed by M.A.D Mobile: kink sites <a href="https://chaos.social/tags/BDSM" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>BDSM</span></a> People and Chica, and LGBT apps Pink, Brish and Translove."<br><a href="https://www.bbc.com/news/articles/c05m5m5v327o" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" translate="no" target="_blank"><span class="invisible">https://www.</span><span class="ellipsis">bbc.com/news/articles/c05m5m5v</span><span class="invisible">327o</span></a></p>
Dr. Maurice Schuhmann<p>Ich werde als Gastherausgeber eine Ausgabe der <a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/espero" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>espero</span></a> zum Thema "<a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/Anarchismus" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>Anarchismus</span></a> und Sexualität(en)" gestalten. Den Call for articles findet man hier: <a href="https://www.maurice-schuhmann.de/c-f-a-espero/" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" translate="no" target="_blank"><span class="invisible">https://www.</span><span class="ellipsis">maurice-schuhmann.de/c-f-a-esp</span><span class="invisible">ero/</span></a><br><a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/gender" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>gender</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/queer" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>queer</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/bdsm" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>bdsm</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/fetischismus" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>fetischismus</span></a></p>
bdsm_chu<p>Trying to squeeze the Milk out of these Boobies 👅<br><a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/nsfw" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>nsfw</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/adult" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>adult</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/boobs" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>boobs</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/milk" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>milk</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/lactation" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>lactation</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/bdsm" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>bdsm</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/kink" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>kink</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/kinky" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>kinky</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/roughsex" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>roughsex</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/rough" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>rough</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/hard" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>hard</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/SqueezeOut" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>SqueezeOut</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/boobsqueeze" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>boobsqueeze</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/boobies" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>boobies</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/carsex" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>carsex</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/exhibition" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>exhibition</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/nudity" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>nudity</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/voyeur" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>voyeur</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/nipple" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>nipple</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/nipples" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>nipples</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/nippleplay" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>nippleplay</span></a></p>
Alexis Bushnell<p>Off to "At Your Service: Topping from Submission" today, a class on service topping (as you may have guessed from the title!).</p><p>It's something I've thought I should look into for ages but broadly makes me feel uncomfortable (apart from now one very specific situation.)</p><p>If you're interested, you can grab a ticket here: <a href="https://forbiddentickets.com/events/pandastory/2025-03-30-at-your-service-topping-from-submission" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" translate="no" target="_blank"><span class="invisible">https://</span><span class="ellipsis">forbiddentickets.com/events/pa</span><span class="invisible">ndastory/2025-03-30-at-your-service-topping-from-submission</span></a></p><p>Disclosure: I get a % of ticket sales but I have paid for classes from them before cos they're awesome educators.</p><p><a href="https://toot.wales/tags/BDSM" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>BDSM</span></a> <a href="https://toot.wales/tags/Kink" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>Kink</span></a> <a href="https://toot.wales/tags/KinkEducation" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>KinkEducation</span></a></p>
Jade Blossom<p><strong>Collar And Leash Me Daddy😈😉💋</strong></p> <p><a href="https://lemmynsfw.com/post/23722354" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" translate="no" target="_blank"><span class="invisible">https://</span><span class="">lemmynsfw.com/post/23722354</span><span class="invisible"></span></a></p>
Naga<p>Jalan.showed me last night that earlier this week she added an entry to her daily to-do list:</p><p>"NSL"</p><p>Meaning "Naga's Sex Life."</p><p>Trying to engage with me about my denial or otherwise about sexuality to some degree each day, even if it's a check-in.</p><p>She's temperamentally not the teasing type (e.g.. any male chastity meme, ever), but thinking about how she can avoid just denying-and-forgetting since, as noted above, she can't have any physicality herself right now.</p><p>I love my life.</p><p><a href="https://weirder.earth/tags/BeCarefulWhatYouWishFor" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>BeCarefulWhatYouWishFor</span></a> <a href="https://weirder.earth/tags/MaleChastity" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>MaleChastity</span></a> <a href="https://weirder.earth/tags/OrgasmControl" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>OrgasmControl</span></a> <a href="https://weirder.earth/tags/OrgasmDenial" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>OrgasmDenial</span></a> <a href="https://weirder.earth/tags/FemDom" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>FemDom</span></a> <a href="https://weirder.earth/tags/FLR" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>FLR</span></a> <a href="https://weirder.earth/tags/kink" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>kink</span></a> <a href="https://weirder.earth/tags/BDSM" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>BDSM</span></a></p>
Naga<p>At least I know one gift I'm *not* getting on our anniversary...</p><p><a href="https://weirder.earth/tags/BeCarefulWhatYouWishFor" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>BeCarefulWhatYouWishFor</span></a> <a href="https://weirder.earth/tags/MaleChastity" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>MaleChastity</span></a> <a href="https://weirder.earth/tags/OrgasmControl" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>OrgasmControl</span></a> <a href="https://weirder.earth/tags/OrgasmDenial" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>OrgasmDenial</span></a> <a href="https://weirder.earth/tags/FemDom" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>FemDom</span></a> <a href="https://weirder.earth/tags/FLR" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>FLR</span></a> <a href="https://weirder.earth/tags/kink" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>kink</span></a> <a href="https://weirder.earth/tags/BDSM" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>BDSM</span></a></p>
vanderWaardart<p>New interview for "Hailing Hellions," which interviews models from my book series—usually about <a href="https://noods.fun/tags/BDSM" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>BDSM</span></a>, politics (e.g., gender studies, <a href="https://noods.fun/tags/Marxism" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>Marxism</span></a>) + liberating sex work! </p><p>Today's subject: <br>@victim-victorious.bsky.social!</p><p>CW: SA and intersex abuse</p><p><a href="https://vanderwaardart.com/2025/03/hailing-hellions-an-interview-with-victoria-saix" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" translate="no" target="_blank"><span class="invisible">https://</span><span class="ellipsis">vanderwaardart.com/2025/03/hai</span><span class="invisible">ling-hellions-an-interview-with-victoria-saix</span></a></p><p><a href="https://noods.fun/tags/nsfwsky" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>nsfwsky</span></a> <a href="https://noods.fun/tags/latex" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>latex</span></a></p>
MISTRESS L SOPHIE<p>READY TO SERVE ?<br><a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/serveme" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>serveme</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/mistress" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>mistress</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/bdsm" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>bdsm</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/dominatrix" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>dominatrix</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/kinky" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>kinky</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/lockedcock" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>lockedcock</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/slave" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>slave</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/femaleledrelationship" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>femaleledrelationship</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/Chastitycage" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>Chastitycage</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/nsfw" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>nsfw</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/FLR" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>FLR</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/SPH" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>SPH</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/CHASTITY_LS" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>CHASTITY_LS</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/Chastitykey" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>Chastitykey</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/kinksters" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>kinksters</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/slaveslife" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>slaveslife</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/slaveslut" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>slaveslut</span></a></p>
vanderWaardart<p>The latest interview for "Hailing Hellions," which interviews models from my book series—usually about <a href="https://noods.fun/tags/BDSM" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>BDSM</span></a>, politics (e.g., gender studies, <a href="https://noods.fun/tags/Marxism" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>Marxism</span></a>), and liberating sex work!</p><p>Today's interviewee is Moxxy Sting!</p><p><a href="https://vanderwaardart.com/2025/03/hailing-hellions-an-interview-with-moxxy-sting" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" translate="no" target="_blank"><span class="invisible">https://</span><span class="ellipsis">vanderwaardart.com/2025/03/hai</span><span class="invisible">ling-hellions-an-interview-with-moxxy-sting</span></a></p><p><a href="https://noods.fun/tags/nsfw" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>nsfw</span></a> <a href="https://noods.fun/tags/of" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>of</span></a> <a href="https://noods.fun/tags/mombod" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>mombod</span></a> <a href="https://noods.fun/tags/anCom" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>anCom</span></a> <a href="https://noods.fun/tags/shaved" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>shaved</span></a></p>
Kieran<p>Trying out new things. :]<br><a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/collar" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>collar</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/bdsm" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>bdsm</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/handmade" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>handmade</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/jewelry" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>jewelry</span></a></p>
ELLIOTTCABLE<p>Hi! New instance, new pinned post.</p><p>Send me cool people to follow (or introduce yourself!)</p><p>- leftists<br>- functional programmers, 'spcly <a href="https://functional.cafe/tags/OCaml" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>OCaml</span></a> folks<br>- <a href="https://functional.cafe/tags/Queer" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>Queer</span></a> mfers, <a href="https://functional.cafe/tags/BDSM" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>BDSM</span></a>, or <a href="https://functional.cafe/tags/polyamory" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>polyamory</span></a><br>- fans of <a href="https://functional.cafe/tags/SystemicGames" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>SystemicGames</span></a> (<a href="https://functional.cafe/tags/Factorio" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>Factorio</span></a>, <a href="https://functional.cafe/tags/RimWorld" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>RimWorld</span></a>, and the like)</p><p>come @ me :transHaskell:</p>
G, PonyhounD🔜IPTC |🦮🏇🔞<p>Waiting for you.</p><p><a href="https://woof.group/tags/HumanDog" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>HumanDog</span></a> <a href="https://woof.group/tags/HumanPup" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>HumanPup</span></a> <a href="https://woof.group/tags/GayPup" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>GayPup</span></a> <a href="https://woof.group/tags/GayPuppy" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>GayPuppy</span></a> <a href="https://woof.group/tags/PupLife" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>PupLife</span></a> <a href="https://woof.group/tags/PupPlay" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>PupPlay</span></a> <a href="https://woof.group/tags/PuppyPlay" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>PuppyPlay</span></a> <a href="https://woof.group/tags/roleplay" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>roleplay</span></a> <a href="https://woof.group/tags/AnimalRoleplay" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>AnimalRoleplay</span></a> <a href="https://woof.group/tags/KinkyPup" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>KinkyPup</span></a> <a href="https://woof.group/tags/kink" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>kink</span></a> <a href="https://woof.group/tags/BDSM" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>BDSM</span></a> <a href="https://woof.group/tags/sunset" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>sunset</span></a> <a href="https://woof.group/tags/nude" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>nude</span></a></p>
Naga<p>Context:</p><p>Penetrative sex is not physically possible for her right now, in either direction, and hasn't been for some time. So, yeah, she's not losing anything further by denying me, and so "doesn't see the need."</p><p>Through February, the rules for over a year had strictly limited my opportunities to masturbate, but most of the time hadn't totally forbidden it (or orgasm).</p><p>Because of the limitations--including that she also hasn't been able to masturbate for several months--that's felt severely unbalanced. I brought this up and asked for stricter rules.</p><p>Her response was a masturbation ban from that day (3/2) through 3/30, to be re-assessed then. It had already been two weeks since I'd last come, so we're up to 35 days, even though the rule has only been in place for 21.</p><p>So, yeah. <a href="https://weirder.earth/tags/BeCarefulWhatYouWishFor" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>BeCarefulWhatYouWishFor</span></a>, but it was with intent and deliberation. That doesn't mean I'm not feeling this new declaration!</p><p><a href="https://weirder.earth/tags/MaleChastity" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>MaleChastity</span></a> <a href="https://weirder.earth/tags/OrgasmControl" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>OrgasmControl</span></a> <a href="https://weirder.earth/tags/OrgasmDenial" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>OrgasmDenial</span></a> <a href="https://weirder.earth/tags/FemDom" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>FemDom</span></a> <a href="https://weirder.earth/tags/FLR" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>FLR</span></a> <a href="https://weirder.earth/tags/kink" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>kink</span></a> <a href="https://weirder.earth/tags/BDSM" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>BDSM</span></a></p>
Naga<p>Today, after I was blindfolded and strictly bound, I remarked on the circumstances of my last orgasm, which was February 16, so 35 days ago.</p><p>Jalan's reply: "Yeah. you're not going to come again for a while. I just don't see the need."</p><p>...</p><p>I've been under a *masturbation* ban, that was set through at least next Sunday, March 30. That is not the same as a declared *orgasm* ban--and one which sounds like it's going to go well past next weekend at that.</p><p>So I guess that's now my situation.</p><p>I love my life.</p><p>Hashtag soup:<br><a href="https://weirder.earth/tags/MaleChastity" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>MaleChastity</span></a> <a href="https://weirder.earth/tags/OrgasmControl" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>OrgasmControl</span></a> <a href="https://weirder.earth/tags/OrgasmDenial" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>OrgasmDenial</span></a> <a href="https://weirder.earth/tags/FemDom" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>FemDom</span></a> <a href="https://weirder.earth/tags/FLR" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>FLR</span></a> <a href="https://weirder.earth/tags/kink" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>kink</span></a> <a href="https://weirder.earth/tags/BDSM" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>BDSM</span></a> <a href="https://weirder.earth/tags/bondage" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>bondage</span></a></p>
Colin Davis<p>“Held tight, Let go - 8-12” (2025) ft Alejandro, Pup scrappy &amp; Alex with bondage work from Phantom</p><p>An experimental shoot with mirrors (which I generally avoid) and restraints </p><p>[peek behind the lens: I have individual &amp; group conversations with the models and crew around shoot themes and their boundaries. We all check in throughout the shoot. All of this is done with — ideally with gleeful — consent.] <a href="https://artsoqueer.com/tags/queerphotography" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>queerphotography</span></a> <a href="https://artsoqueer.com/tags/gayphotography" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>gayphotography</span></a> <a href="https://artsoqueer.com/tags/queerart" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>queerart</span></a> <a href="https://artsoqueer.com/tags/gayart" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>gayart</span></a> <a href="https://artsoqueer.com/tags/bdsm" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>bdsm</span></a></p>
Colin Davis<p>“Held tight, Let go - 1-4” (2025) ft Alejandro, Pup Scrappy &amp; Alex with bondage work from Phantom</p><p>An experimental shoot with mirrors (which I generally avoid) and restraints </p><p>[peek behind the lens: I have individual &amp; group conversations with the models and crew around shoot themes and their boundaries. We all check in throughout the shoot. All of this is done with — ideally with gleeful — consent.] <a href="https://artsoqueer.com/tags/queerphotography" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>queerphotography</span></a> <a href="https://artsoqueer.com/tags/gayphotography" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>gayphotography</span></a> <a href="https://artsoqueer.com/tags/queerart" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>queerart</span></a> <a href="https://artsoqueer.com/tags/gayart" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>gayart</span></a> <a href="https://artsoqueer.com/tags/bdsm" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>bdsm</span></a></p>
ABY BUT IN ALLCAPS<p>Him:<br>I'm in security. I'm a consultant. </p><p>Me:<br>OK, well I don't play with anyone who is a cop or works cop-adjacent, like in security companies. </p><p>Him:<br>Umm well actually it's finance security. I'm not a security guard</p><p>___<br>1. You said security, my guy.<br>2. That's not really any better.<br>3. Still not interested.</p><p><a href="https://aus.social/tags/kink" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>kink</span></a> <a href="https://aus.social/tags/bdsm" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>bdsm</span></a> <a href="https://aus.social/tags/Ds" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>Ds</span></a> <a href="https://aus.social/tags/Dominant" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>Dominant</span></a> <a href="https://aus.social/tags/submissive" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>submissive</span></a> <a href="https://aus.social/tags/fetlife" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>fetlife</span></a> <a href="https://aus.social/tags/dating" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>dating</span></a></p>