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Sex-Fantasy #Chatbots Are Leaking a Constant Stream of #Explicit Messages

Some misconfigured #AI chatbots are pushing people’s #chats to the open web—revealing #sexual prompts and conversations that include descriptions of child sexual abuse.
#privacy #security #leak

wired.com/story/sex-fantasy-ch

WIRED · Sex-Fantasy Chatbots Are Leaking a Constant Stream of Explicit MessagesBy Matt Burgess

#SCOTUS will hear a #FirstAmendment challenge to a #Colorado #law banning professional #counseling services engaged in #ConversionTherapy intended to change a minor’s #gender identity or #sexual orientation.

>20 states have similar laws, which are supported by leading #medical groups. Kaley Chiles, a licensed counselor, challenged the constitutionality of the Colorado law in federal court, saying it violated her rights to free speech & the free exercise of #religion.

nytimes.com/2025/03/10/us/poli

The New York Times · Supreme Court to Hear Challenge to Law Banning Conversion TherapyBy Adam Liptak

pillowfort.social/posts/592980

Saheli, a 'non-steroidal non-hormonal contraceptive pill'. Saheli dosage starts 1 pill per half-week for ... (?), then 1 pill weekly. Basically induce a brief, mini-menopause that stops when you stop the pills. saheliinfo.com/clinical-eviden

Then! ONE-YEAR vaginal ring Annovera. Unlike monthly-ish vaginal rings, (medicines.org.uk/emc/product/6) this thicker vaginal ring holds enough for 13 cycles with one week bleeding breaks, or 12 if you skip periods. Think "buff NuvaRing". annoverahcp.com/

Speaking of intra-uterine system / device options: the UK does several! We are no longer stuck with the larger, higher dose Mirena hIUS. mirena.co.uk/ I want the smaller, lower dose (but shorter duration) Jaydess fsrh.org/Public/Public/Documen or Kyleena. medicines.org.uk/emc/product/7

(You can fit a non-hormonal IUD copper coil as emergency contraception, within 10 days of unprotected sex. Fitting it as regular birth control anytime otherwise is also fine, when not pregnant.) patient.info/sexual-health/lon

Finally, vasectomy. New part is "I found multiple cases where doctors did their own vasectomies". This may be helpful for hesitant cis men and AMAB people to know. Vasectomies are reversible ("easily", according to a medical nerd friend, but obv different people's bodies respond to things in weird, cool ways, so everything depends). baus.org.uk/_userfiles/pages/f

I am not a doctor. Even if I were, I am not YOUR doctor. I do not have access to your medical records.
I'm just infodumping useful info to prevent unwanted pregnancies, minimise unplanned pregnancies, and mitigate risks. cks.nice.org.uk/topics/contrac

PillowfortMxVerda: Contraception in the UK - limited options but improvingHey! Hey you! new contraceptives / birth control options unfamiliar to the UK. Saheli, a 'non-steroidal non-hormonal contraceptive pill'. Cis women and AFAB people in India have been taking it since the 90s but no international or FDA approval / sought. Saheli dosage starts 1 pill per half-week for ... (?), then 1 pill weekly. Basically induce a brief, mini-menopause that stops when you stop the pills.  https://saheliinfo.com/clinical-evidence Then! ONE-YEAR vaginal ring Annovera. Unlike monthly-ish vaginal rings, (https://www.medicines.org.uk/emc/product/6449/smpc) this thicker vaginal ring holds enough for 13 cycles with one week bleeding breaks, or 12 if you skip periods. Think "buff NuvaRing" -- which I'm now trying! Despite migraines of mulitple types including with aura, while I wait for my IUS fitting on April Fools Day. https://www.annoverahcp.com/ Speaking of intra-uterine system / device options: the UK does several! We are no longer stuck with the larger, higher dose Mirena hIUS. https://www.mirena.co.uk/ I want the smaller, lower dose (but shorter duration) Jaydess https://www.fsrh.org/Public/Public/Documents/ceu-product-review-jaydess-apr-14.aspx or Kyleena. https://www.medicines.org.uk/emc/product/769/smpc (You can have a non-hormonal IUD copper coil fitted as emergency contraception, within 10 days of unprotected sex. Fitting it as regular birth control anytime otherwise is also fine, when not pregnant.) https://patient.info/sexual-health/long-acting-reversible-contraceptives-larc/intrauterine-contraceptive-device Finally, vasectomy. New part is "I found multiple cases where doctors did their own vasectomies". This may be helpful for hesitant cis men and AMAB people to know. Vasectomies are reversible ("easily", according to a medical nerd friend, but obv different people's bodies respond to things in weird, cool ways, so everything depends). https://www.baus.org.uk/_userfiles/pages/files/Patients/Leaflets/Vasectomy.pdf I am not a doctor. Even if I were, I am not YOUR doctor. I do not have access to your medical records. I'm just infodumping useful info to prevent unwanted pregnancies, minimise unplanned pregnancies, and mitigate risks. https://cks.nice.org.uk/topics/contraception-sterilization/management/male-sterilization-vasectomy/ With great(er) awareness of contraceptive options comes great(er) compatibility!~ Your partner in demanding better sexual health options for everyone: some randomer online. 😼 yes, my hobby is telling people things exist https://lgbtqia.space/@MxVerda/114015172551262234

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time.com/7221379/nancy-mace-po

Nancy Mace, the firebrand South Carolina Republican who is considering a run for governor, made headlines Monday when she gave a highly unusual speech on the U.S. House floor accusing four men—including her former fiancé—of #rape, #physical #abuse, and #sexual #misconduct.

Speaking for nearly an hour, 𝗠𝗮𝗰𝗲 𝘀𝗮𝗶𝗱 𝘀𝗵𝗲 𝘄𝗮𝘀 “𝗴𝗼𝗶𝗻𝗴 𝘀𝗰𝗼𝗿𝗰𝗵𝗲𝗱 𝗲𝗮𝗿𝘁𝗵” 𝘁𝗼 “𝗰𝗮𝗹𝗹 𝗼𝘂𝘁 𝘁𝗵𝗲 𝗰𝗼𝘄𝗮𝗿𝗱𝘀 𝘄𝗵𝗼 𝘁𝗵𝗶𝗻𝗸 𝘁𝗵𝗲𝘆 𝗰𝗮𝗻 𝗽𝗿𝗲𝘆 𝗼𝗻 𝘄𝗼𝗺𝗲𝗻 𝗮𝗻𝗱 𝗴𝗲𝘁 𝗮𝘄𝗮𝘆 𝘄𝗶𝘁𝗵 𝗶𝘁,” providing in detail what she said the men did to her and other victims. Mace said she spoke up because the state's top prosecutor, Attorney General Alan Wilson, did not take meaningful action after she allegedly alerted investigators. Wilson—who is likely to be Mace’s opponent if she runs for governor of South Carolina in 2026—said the rape allegations were never sent to his office.

Mace, 47, has long positioned herself as a champion of the safety of women and children. She often shares the story of being molested at a swimming pool when she was 14 and raped when she was 16, leading her to drop out of high school. Mace went on to become the first woman to graduate from the Citadel, a military college, and was elected to Congress in 2021.

But her political career is one marked by defiance and controversy. The Daily Beast reported last year, based on interviews with her former staff, that Mace prioritizes national media exposure to an unusual degree.

Once considered a moderate, Mace has fully embraced President Donald Trump’s agenda, despite him being found liable for sexual abuse. She has been arguably the most vocal figure in the GOP’s crusade against transgender rights, introducing a controversial resolution in November to ban trans women from using women’s restrooms in the Capitol in response to the first openly trans woman being elected to Congress. Mace has since continued to cast anti-trans views on her social media and often uses transphobic slurs, including during a February House committee hearing.

In recent weeks, she has been outspoken about her potential run for governor of South Carolina.

Here’s what to know about Mace.

Airing sexual assault allegations on the House floor

Mace accused her ex-fiancé Patrick Bryant and three other South Carolina men of drugging, raping, and filming women without their consent, as well as sex-trafficking. She did not present evidence to back up her allegations but said she had materials to corroborate them.

Bryant told the Associated Press: “I categorically deny these allegations. I take this matter seriously and will cooperate fully with any necessary legal processes to clear my name.” TIME could not independently verify these allegations. The South Carolina Law Enforcement Division has since confirmed the agency has had an active investigation focused on Bryant since December 2023.

Mace said that in November 2023 she “accidentally uncovered some of the most heinous crimes against women imaginable” after finding on Bryant’s phone a video of herself undressed and unaware she was being filmed, along with additional videos and photographs of other women. She accused Bryant of physically assaulting her after she found the contents of his phone. “I still have the mark that Patrick Bryant made on me the night that he assaulted me,” Mace said. “I will wear this mark that he made on me for the rest of my life as a badge of honor.”

She also claimed that Bryant and his business associates drugged her in 2022, and that she was raped during that incident. “I believe that they purposely incapacitated me. Was anyone else there, was it filmed, was it sold on the dark web? I have no idea, but I know what these men do to their victims,” she said.

Mace said she had turned over all the evidence she had against the men to law enforcement in South Carolina, but that Wilson, the state’s attorney general, had failed to act. Wilson rejected Mace’s comments as “categorically false” and added that she “either does not understand or is purposefully mischaracterizing the role of the Attorney General.”

“Our office has not received any reports or requests for assistance from any law enforcement or prosecution agencies regarding these matters,” his office said in a statement. “The Attorney General and members of his office have had no role and no knowledge of these allegations until her public statements.”

She once claimed to be an LGBTQ+ ally

Mace’s views on the LGBTQ+ community appear to have changed since she first took office.

In an interview with the Washington Examiner in 2021, she said: "I strongly support LGBTQ rights and equality ... no one should be discriminated against." She added that she has “friends and family that identify as LGBTQ” and that “understanding how they feel and how they’ve been treated is important.” In a 2023 interview with CBS News, Mace said “I'm pro-transgender rights” and expressed support for youth who are socially transitioning genders.

“If they wanna take on a different pronoun or a different gender identity or grow their hair out, or wear a dress or wear pants, or do those things as a minor—those are all things that I think most people would support. Be who you want to be, but don’t make permanent changes as a child,” Mace said, noting that she supports bans on gender-affirming care for transgender youth.

Since November, Mace has been one of the most vocal Republican critics of policies aimed at expanding rights for transgender people. She has faced criticism for misgendering and making derogatory comments about transgender individuals, including a recent exchange during a House Oversight Committee hearing where she repeatedly used a transphobic slur. Despite the criticism, Mace doubled down, posting clips of the exchange on social media and defending her remarks as part of a broader effort to resist what she sees as the overreach of the left.

Mace’s hardline stance on transgender rights extends to legislation she has championed, such as her proposal to ban trans women from using women’s restrooms and changing rooms in the Capitol and House office buildings. The policy, which was part of a broader conservative push, was not initially included in the House rules package for the 118th Congress but found its way into the 119th after Speaker Mike Johnson, a Louisiana Republican, included it in his policies. Mace has framed her anti-trans rhetoric as an effort to protect women and children, though her opponents accuse her of stoking division and perpetuating harmful myths about the transgender community.

She voted to oust the former House Speaker

Mace was one of eight House Republicans who voted to oust Republican House Speaker Kevin McCarthy in October 2023 after he struck a deal with Democrats to pass a stopgap spending bill and avoid a government shutdown. It was the first time in history that the House had voted to remove a Speaker.

Mace faced sharp criticism for her vote. She said she voted to oust McCarthy over a “perceived lack of trust,” claiming that he didn’t honor commitments regarding balanced budget amendments and didn’t support two women's related bills she'd worked on. "For me, this was a vote of principle and a vote of conscience," Mace said. "I could not, in good conscience, continue to support a speaker who was unwilling to tell the truth. To me, you have to have honesty and truth, especially [given] how divisive this country is. We had a guy who was telling Conservatives one thing, moderates another, and Democrats something else. This is not the way to lead."

Mace made headlines for wearing a red “A” on her shirt after leaving the vote, claiming she felt “demonized” for her choice, in reference to The Scarlet Letter, a 19th century novel in which the protagonist was condemned to wear a red “A” after becoming pregnant out of wedlock.

Considering a run for governor

Mace told the AP in January that she is “seriously considering” a gubernatorial run in 2026 and will make a final decision in the coming weeks. She added that she plans to ask for Trump’s support, after he backed her in last year’s GOP primary race.

“Trump is going to need people in governor seats in ’26,” Mace told the AP. “It’s not going to be an easy election cycle for us. In ’26, we need people who can win, win big, and implement his agenda, and I will do that. I’ve been doing it. I have a great relationship with him, and I will be asking him for his support statewide in South Carolina.” Wilson, the state Attorney General, has also said he is considering a run for governor.

Mace currently represents South Carolina’s only swing district, which includes the Charleston area.

Time · Who is Nancy Mace? What to Know About Her Political CareerBy Nik Popli
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Further health advisories in general:

Wipe from front to back. No, not everyone knows this! More people are born every day, and no one is born knowing everything. Also people forget.

"V to A = you're okay.
A to V = burns to pee."

This also means during sex, sexual intercourse, penetration, sex toys, recreational stimulation, etc.

Don't reuse butt stuff for muff stuff!

Also: if you experience vaginal dryness, that can increase your risk of thrush, BV, and UTIs. nhs.uk/conditions/vaginal-dryn

nhs.uk · Vaginal drynessRead about vaginal dryness, including why it happens and what can be done about it.

At the direction of #Trump, the #HHS & its agencies are purging websites of info & data on a broad array of topics—from #adolescent #health to #LGBTQ+ rights to #HIV, even #flu shots.

Several pages from the #CDC w/references to LGBTQ+ health are no longer available. A page from the HHS Office for #CivilRights outlining LGBTQ+ rights in #healthcare was also gone Fri. The site of the #NIH's Office for #Sexual & #Gender #Minority #Research Office disappeared.

#whitewashing
npr.org/sections/shots-health-

Edit to add link. Apologies for popping into the timeline so frequently. There's a lot going on, and reporting on it is light. (But how many stories were there about Bezo's RealDoll's visible bra? So fucking many.)

In 2022 after R v. W was overturned, Biden directed that reproductiverights.gov be created. It had information about #abortion rights, access to breast and cervical #cancer screenings, and other #sexual, #prenatal, and #preventive #healthcare.

The site went black at the same time as Herr Combover started his circus act with the #ExecutiveOrders. There is no replacement planned.

Y'all thought I were kidding when I said #maga hates #women. I have been working for reproductive rights since the 80s, starting as a clinic escort when "christians" were beating women with sticks trying to get into clinics. I got my bioethics Phd focused on women's health. I guaran-gawddamn-tee you, these men see women as nothing more than chattel, fleshlights & breeders.
allsides.com/story/abortion-go

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who are cis people? What is a cis man? What makes a man cis? What makes a man trans?

(in case anyone wants to misrepresent any of this video or my posting of it -- no one is or should be disposable. Even if you don't like them.
I might say otherwise in my own personal experiences with a handful of people who have behaved unconscionably towrd me, but that's neither my ideal nor what I think would bring a better world.
Even less so on demographic grounds. Like, I understand if Person A abuses you, yeah you will be experiencing a range of emotions -- or shutdown, or cycle through them. But that's individual, not systemic. anyway.)

Obvious one we should all be able to agree on tho: posturing based on attacking others is not "real" gender. It's just insecurity getting defensive at other people.

youtube.com/watch?v=D_k8aMvIV0

#Israel Blocks UN Probe Into Hamas #Sexual Crimes From October 7 to Avoid Inquiry Into Abuse of #Palestinians: „Israeli women's rights groups warn this could lead to Israel, instead of #Hamas being added to the UN's sexual violence blacklist“

haaretz.com/israel-news/2025-0

As a man, I *completely* endorse this article!! Please boost widely!

“Child sexual abuse is not about ethnicity or politics. It’s about toxic men.”

by Ed Sykes in The Canary @thecanaryuk

@UKLabour

“Canary writer Ed Sykes outlines our position on child sexual abuse and its current weaponisation by the far-right”

thecanary.co/editorial/2025/01

Canary · Child sexual abuse is not about ethnicity or politics. It's about toxic men.Canary writer Ed Sykes outlines our position on child sexual abuse and its current weaponisation by the far-right
#Press#Child#Sexual