@kottke
more pussy appeasers who will get hurt even more by their abuser: #CycleOfAbuse

@callisto @limneticvillains

the #cycleOfAbuse also has endings and beginnings

some took great abuse, and didn't dish it out on others. to their great credit

but there are also those, like #jKRowling, who *start* the cycle of abuse

there is no trauma backstory, none whatsoever, that explains her turn to loud forceful #bigotry

she is a real monster

we need to understand people, yes

sometimes we see how they are a victim as well

but sometimes that understanding means seeing a true villain